Remembering Them With Crosses
(These types of posts always worry me a little bit. I never know what the reaction will be - it could go either way. I could be seen in a negative light, or plenty of people might agree. But, I’m interested in your opinion. Feel free to post a comment!)
I was driving on the interstate a couple of days ago. I looked over to the side of the road and saw three small crosses planted in the grass - a memorial to crash victims, no doubt. As I continued my drive, I started thinking about the idea of putting a cross where someone has died to honor their memory and the place of their death. Sometimes, people just use a stake. Others, a ribbon around a tree. I’m sure there are more ideas that have been used.
Should we use a cross as a symbolic memorial of someone’s death? I’m not trying to sound insensitive with this post, I promise. I’m just not sure we should use a cross.
Here’s my reasoning: This past Easter revealed to me how much Jesus’ death on the cross has come to mean to me. I don’t take it lightly anymore. The cross is huge to Christianity. It has become the universal symbol of Christianity. Even though a person’s death may be tragic, no one’s life or death accomplished what Jesus accomplished through the cross.
Part of me says, if I were to die, I would like to be remembered with a cross. I would want people to know I was a Christian. But, another part of me says I haven’t endured what Jesus endured - I wouldn’t deserve a cross as a memorial. In fact, I’ve done plenty to deserve the cross as a punishment. If it were up to me, I wouldn’t feel worthy to be remembered with a cross.
What do you think?
I agree totally, I think we have a wrong idea these days of the cross. Would you put up an image of a noose or an electric chair as a memorial? Or for that matter would you wear a noose or an electric chair as a piece of jewelry? I agree with what you say, and I too hope to be worthy to be able to do Matt 16:24
Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. I’ll pray for you to (Gal 2:20) die to yourself and let Christ live through you and hope that you can do the same for me.
God’s Best to you,
Dave
Dave
8 Apr 08 at 4:35 am